Adult Supervision

Maybe I am over protective, but I think it is wise to always have an eye on your children, especially when they are 6, 4 and 1.  For some reason, others think it is quite ok to leave a 6 year old on the playground by herself.  Just this morning on our return from the bread store a man dismounted his bike and wanted to take pictures of my kids.  When I told him they didn't really like that he seemed ok and proceeded to shake my hand.  He was very excited about us foreigners, a little too excited.  People often grab them, touch their faces, stroke their hair and want to take photos.  I know this is because they are a rare breed with their golden locks and blue eyes, but as a mother I have to protect my kids.  There are plenty of crazy people around, and you don't always know just by looking who the next crazy will be.  We are always polite and I emphasize that to the kids, to be kind even when you are uncomfortable.  But I have also told my children they are not aloud to be outside without an adult whom I know and trust.  Today, Ayi decided to leave Grace and her son, 4, on the playground to come back up to the 9th floor and retrieve Lola.  I was so antsy that I got into the elevator without putting on any shoes and went down to get her.  I am continuously reminded that I have to teach Grace, Lola and Peter to obey Mom and Dad and not do what someone else may think is ok.  Love my kids, love our Ayi.... but whoo - I did not like my Grace being left outside without adult supervision.

3 Things that I fear, respect and entrall me

Tornados... my worst nightmare literally. I have had tornado dreams as long as I can remember. I have this desire to chase them but I'm scared to death of being caught in one.


Sharks are so extraordinary. Noone really truly understands them. I have always wanted to go dive in the waters between Cuba and the Tortugas during the annual Hammerhead migration. Probably one thing that's on my bucket list that will never happen, but its a cool idea. But isn't the thought of the above pic happening to you horrifying. To know a shark twice the length of your kayak was coming for a closer look.


Mt. Everest... another of those bucket list items that will not happen. I used to think it might not happen, now I'm sure it'll never happen. Although I love to climb, I love heights and the thought of accomplishing such a feat is mind blowing - I will never subject myself to those extreme temperatures. Yes, the cold scares me. Something about coming down with pride in-tact, but a few fingers gone is just not appealing anymore. Side note - I did climb in the Himalayas 11 years ago. It was beautiful but I got bronchitis mid way through and it was torture at that altitude. I hiked like a Grandma.

New Digs

We've moved! Yay! Finally after years of looking we found an apartment that was right. It wasn't without some serious pains, but we believe Dad has put us in just the right place.

So here is the lowdown. We have 5 rooms, a nice sized living room and attached dining area, a little nook with an island and a decent kitchen. Our balcony overlooks a pond and the playground and our nook overlooks the pool. Yes, I said a pool. And it is clean, although it is only open 2 months of the year from 4-9pm. The best part of our new place is the grounds. Beautiful! It is like living in the center of a park. One evening last week I walked across to a friends house and found myself imagining that I was in the woods, hiking. Now I haven't had that feeling in a loooong time. Now if I just had time to get out and walk around every evening....

We haven't gotten all the boxes unpacked and there is still no art or photos hung on the walls, but we are pretty much at home now, so here is the tour...


Walking in the front door there is a big wardrobe for coats and shoes. To the left is the kitchen and office which you'll see at the end of the tour. To the right you can see the dining area and part of the living room.

Here is the living room. Pretty simple. You can see the balcony with some clothes hung on rack outside. We are on the 9th floor... Here is the view from our balcony. Ponds and grass... in the near distance they are building a mall that will supposedly have an imax theater and a McDonalds...

to the right you can see the playground... a place we frequent!
Back inside. The first room you come to belongs to the girls. Good thing there's a doll house, else you might not know this very blue room is indeed a girlie girls' room.

Across the hall is the school room! This is my favorite room. It makes my life easier, more organized and just happy! You can see the reading nook there on the window seat...This is our school room mural. I am very pleased with our choice even though poor Peter will have to look at ballerinas while learning his math facts if we are still here in 5 years ( I hope we are!)

I love my IKEA bookshelf that we decided to hang on the wall. I wanted you to see it so there it is on the right! Moving on down the hall we come to Peter's room. Do you see Gracie? She wanted to be in the picture : ) I love the mural in Peter's room too.

And across the hall is my room. Our window seat is still full of framed photos and a few boxes of stuff that needs to find a place to go. Our room is super simple, but the window seat is amazing. It wraps around and gives a full view of the grounds out back.
I just had to share the horrible blinds in my bathroom. Just in case I want to think I'm at the pool... and unfortunately we have to leave them down or we give the neighborhood a show every time we go potty. My plan is to have a shower curtain hung that can be easily opened and closed. For now, we're at the pool! Gracie seems to like it.

Going back to the other end of the house... here is the view of the living room from the other direction with the dining area and my very cheap buffet that was supposed to match the table. It doesn't, but it matches the couch so I let it stay: )
Once you pass the entry way you enter the girl nook... this is my island/bar. I will some day purchase some bar stools.

Here is a view of the kitchen. There's Ayi doing what she does best! Making my life easier!!! Here's the kitchen. I love this kitchen... the counters are 90 cms high... I can wash dishes without getting a backache. A little funny... the track lighting fell at one end because the ceiling is empty. I plan to just glue it up there at some point.
Here is the view from that huge picture window on the back side of the island. That's the pool : )

Sorry, no photo of the office. I'll try to get one soon!

Feel free to come visit us anytime! We have a trundle bed!

Gracie's swimming lessons!

Our little swimmer!

I mean! Gracie seems to struggle with authority sometimes. This isn't her most enduring quality, although she is very enduring most of the time. Swimming lessons was another reminder that she doesn't like not being able to call all the shots, but she accomplished quite a bit regardless of her stubbornness. I think she was a little scared at first and didn't know what to do about water going up her nose, so she did better once she mastered holding her breath. She'll definitely be taking swimming lessons again next summer in the States, where she'll probably do much better not being yelled at in Chinese. I think she could probably survive if she fell in the pool, but I wouldn't want to find out. She is cute though and her good days out-shined her bad ones! I love this kid to pieces!

Practicing the scissor kick!

She got good with that kickboard!

Peter at 6 months!

Peter doing 2 of his favorite things-playing and sticking out his tongue.

Time really flies with a baby in the house. I can hardly believe Peter is already 6 months old. It seems like only a few weeks ago I was realizing that I would not make it to the hospital in time and opted to have Peter at home, his proud Daddy catching him as he entered the world. A lot has happened since then, but still the time has seemed so short. I find myself wishing Peter would stay a baby forever some days. He is so cute, so cuddly! We call him sweet face because sometimes he just looks at us with that grin and those dimples and those gorgeous blue eyes and he looks like an angel. What a precious little boy the Lord has given us!

At 6 months Peter has officially cut his 2 bottom front teeth! Not at all without due fussing and sleeplessness, but the teeth are here! He is getting up on all fours but still just scooting backward,usually getting stuck under the edge of the sofa. He loves to play with toys, and I mean real toys. He's had enough of those stuffed Einstein toys, unless they make plenty of noise. His toy of choice is a bag of wipes, but Mom and Dad won't let him naw on them so he usually settles for a pop up toy or the keys. We all love it when Peter laughs and the girls have learned to tickle him to get a good giggle going.Peter almost crawling!

I've broken all "the rules" with Peter, and I've loved every minute of it! He has slept with me since the day he was born. He will sleep in his crib during naps sometimes, but he clearly prefers the sleep number, and who wouldn't? His number is somewhere between 65 and 85 since he sleeps in the middle : ) He still nurses at night and his schedule could be describes as loose at best. He goes where I go and I don't see it as a burden, although he is a hefty little fella. He weighed almost 19 pounds at his last doctor visit a month ago. Anyway, I am fully enjoying Peter. I plan to get him on a real schedule this month starting with nap time. I need to get him eating and sleeping at more precise times for when school starts back, but I think he'll sleep with me a little longer. Maybe the Chinese have rubbed off on me. Don't worry, I won't be sleeping with him when he's 5. But, I figure he may be the last child I give birth to so I want to enjoy every minute!*** Peter went along to check out a new apartment, speaking of fatties, his momma is a bit***

Peter has a nickname around here- it's Fatty, but we only call him that in Chinese which sounds much cuter "Pang Pang". He has rolls all over and has always outweighed his friends both local and foreign. He started smacking his lips at the table and reaching for food about 2 weeks ago, so I got him a high chair and started feeding him cereal. Within a week he knew what to do and now eats a whole bowl at lunchtime. Last night he had a bowl of pumpkin, fresh from the market! Making baby food is time consuming, but rewarding!

Lola wanted to try her hand at feeding Peter. Peter wanted Lola to hurry up!

So, as we say goodbye to the first half of Peter's first year we do so with gratitude! He was delivered to us in a unique way in God's time. He met his family right away, including his Mims. He made it through a terrible cold last month complete with breathing treatments : ( He met his Meme and Aunt Peggy this summer. He has developed well and grown stronger with each passing day. He fills our home with joy. Everyone loves Peter and has to have some snuggle time with him each day. We are so thankful for this gift that only our Father in heaven could give us.

I think Peter likes that Meme person!

Matt and I also celebrated our 8th wedding anniversary the day Peter turned 6 months old! Joy! Joy! Life is good!

Gracie graduates from Kindergarten

Gracie & friends ( minus Maddie who was camera shy)

Yummy Yum!

Gracie made a fox puppet.

We did it! Gracie finally graduated from Kindergarten the last day of June, 2011. Despite the exhaustion of being very pregnant at the beginning of the school year and the time taken off to have Peter we finally completed the curriculum. Gracie made a lot of accomplishments this year. She learned to read, add, subtract, write simple stories and her drawing improved greatly. We enjoyed doing simple science experiments and discovered many things about our history. I am proud of my girl!

To celebrate we had a little party with our friends. The kids made puppets and we had several puppet shows, Gracie got a certificate, and we enjoyed cupcakes and icecream. The kids played hard and Gracie enjoyed every minute. She was happy to say after receiving her certificate that she is now a 1st grader. Wow!
Gr

Test anxiety

I am exhausted. Two Fridays ago I went out of town with a group of ladies and had a great time, Peter in tow! I returned home on Monday evening, cooked dinner and fell into bed sometime after midnight. The next day I washed clothes and packed another suitcase and left with my family for Hong Kong. We were there until Saturday. We got home in the evening and tried to unpack the food and other things we had purchased in HK then I headed to bed, late again. Sunday we had guests all day. It is the day of worship and so we do that and then we fellowship... all day. Our friends left after 10 pm, which was fine because we had a great time, but I didn't get to bed again until midnight. Suitcase still unpacked sitting in my bedroom floor.... house a mess! Monday - homeschool kept me from cleaning or unpacking and I had a Chinese lesson in the afternoon. I went to the foreign market between the two activities, but that was a waste of time because the ATM was broken and I didn't have enough cash to get the things I needed. Tuesday... Chinese lesson in the morning and before that is finished enter out of town guest. I knew they were coming so I spent the time before they arrived unpacking the suitcase... but the house wasn't fully recovered... sigh.

Our sweet friends stayed two days and left Wednesday night. Not one minute was wasted those 2 days. If they went to the hotel to rest then I went to the market or got in our last few lessons of school. Wednesday was also our last day of Kindergarten - officially!!! Thursday... party of course! I woke up and frantically started trying to put my house back together. I think I made everyone mad at me, sorry family. We live in a 3 bedroom apartment that has zero closets, no attic space and only one wardrobe per bedroom. I have to store all our clothes, summer, winter, spring plus the Christmas tree, art supplies, extra bags, shoes, etc, etc, etc in these and there is no place for anything extra. We hoard books so we bought a huge bookshelf, but it is full. There is literally paper, books, clothes, toys and a number of other things sticking out all around the house. At any given time you may find up to 5 or 6 bags laying in the floor. These may be my things, baby bag, Matt's teaching bag, his computer bag, or one of the kids backpacks. Our family of 5 is about to bust the seams of this place. With that said, you can imagine how easily this house gets into a mess. So, back to Thursday morning... me trying to clean/straighten the house was a bit stressful and I had a Chinese lesson starting at 9. At noon my tutor left and I was getting ready to start the cupcakes for Gracie's graduation party. She was bored this morning while I was studying so I had her go through all the crayons and find the broken ones so that we could melt them into new crayons. Note to self... be sure to use an oven safe object to melt the crayons in next time. I had this ice cube tray, that looked like silicone. It looked like it was made of the same thing I cook the cupcakes in, but it was plastic and it melted and filled the house with toxic smoke. Crayon and melted plastic ran all over the oven - the same oven I was planning to cook the cupcakes in... disaster! We acted fast. Our helper put the oven outside on the balcony and I opened all the windows and doors and turned the fans on. I had to use the old oven that acts now as a drying rack for glasses... I burned the first 2 batches of cupcakes and had to cut the tops off. At least that worked. We ate lunch, I fed the baby...oh yeah, during all these things I've been doing I have had to stop and feed Peter every 3 hours. Which is not a hassle at all because I am totally in love with him but it is something else I have to do. So at 2 our first guest arrived and I was so glad because she helped me ice the cupcakes while i pulled all the art supplies down. Matt got home early and I put him to work making our new puppet theater and by the time everyone else arrived it appeared that I had it all together - NOT! But the kids didn't know and they didn't care. They made their little puppets, they played. We had a puppet show or two or three then hit the snacks. Everyone left around 5, I cooked dinner at 6, we ate and my friend helped me review some of my Chinese because I have a HUGE test today. I was exhausted all day, went to bed at 10 and couldn't sleep. Went to sleep, woke up hot. Finally went back to sleep, Lola crawls in my bed and wakes me up. Tossed, turned... got up and started this blog. It is not 2:30 in the morning and I am still exhausted and hoping I will finally fall asleep and maybe sleep well for the next 3 hours before i have to get up and shower and strap the boy on and head out the door to catch me 8 am train to another city to take a Chinese profiency test that I am not ready for in the first place but now will take without enough sleep.

Life goes on!

Gracie plays piano

We have been wanting Gracie to take piano lessons for about a year now, but between her inmaturity, the cost of lessons here and not being able to find a suitable teacher at a good time we just couldn't make it happen. But on Monday we saw a huge sign in the window of our neighbor advertising piano lessons. We called and today she had her first lesson. Usually lessons are 45 minutes long, but we negotiated to let Gracie have 20-25 minute lessons for half the price. This is a better use of time and money since she can only sit still about that long. She had a great first day! She learned where to find C, that C makes the Doe sound, how to hold a note for 4 beats, and also how to hold her hand on the piano correctly. I was amazed that both Gracie and I could understand the teacher... she doesn't speak English and I thought we might be a little lost, but on the contrary we were able to follow right along. I just sat in the background soaking it all up so that I can help her review and practice during the week. Her next lesson is on Saturday! I am so thankful that she is finally getting the chance to learn how to play an instrument. She is so musically inclined. Jia You Gracie girl!

Just lovin some Daddy!

Gracie at the dentist

Is she cute or what? The dentist gave Grace these awesome glasses to wear during her cleaning... the chair was a space chair and the chocolate flavored toothpaste was a hit. She has her teeth "tickled" clean and I was so proud of how well she did. She even let the dentist floss her pearly whites. What a trooper!

Family Outing

This is how we started off... in a taxi on our way to Ocean Terminal to get our friend a birthday present and have lunch. All 3 kids fell asleep on me in the taxi, it was awesome. I always wondered how I would manage such a task, but it was pretty easy since I have two arms and two legs. Guess there is room for one more.... that's a little joke.


The kids woke up for a yummy lunch - the girls both had a chocolate shake and corn dog (yuck)! Matt and I shared some BBQ chicken nachos (yum)!After lunch Matt left us to go get a cavity filled at the dentist. I took Peter and the girls to Toys R Us to get the present. And for the first time I managed them all, including the stroller. The Phil & Ted is awesome, but it is a pain to break down and get into the back of a taxi with an infant strapped to your front. But we did it. The kids were great! I'm lovin it!

Asian Burger Joint

Last night I just didn't want to cook, Matt had to go out late in the afternoon and by the time he returned it was already dinner time and our pantry was empty. So I decided to take advantage of the opportunity and we went out! There is this burger joint called Freshness Burger that I have been wanting to try. Matt and the girls had gone there a few times on their outings and he had raved at how good it was. He didn't bother to tell me that he hadn't actually eaten any of their burgers. The girls had enjoyed the hot dogs and he'd eaten their fries... So this time he ordered a Hawaiian burger and I ordered a veggie burger. I wish I had a picture of what they brought me. It was literally a piece of tofu on a bun with a slice of tomato and lettuce. And it wasn't even a very big slice of tofu - it would cost me about 30 cent at most to buy it in the mainland. I was appalled that this is what they charged me $35 ($6 US) for, so I promptly took it back to the counter. By this time I knew we had made a mistake... this I found out was a Japanese burger joint. Yai,yai,yaiii... The girl at the counter offered to exchange it but I just couldn't decide - nothing looked good to me now and we had just heard another foreigner (white face) complain that the burger wasn't good. I went with the mushroom burger. Yes, you guessed it - a big fat mushroom on a bun with tomato and lettuce. I got it to go, everyone else was finished. Should have gone to McDonalds.
Here is the mushroom burger they gave me... the top bun was completely soaked with mushroom juice.

Back at home we got the girls and Peter to bed - my burger went to the fridge. An hour later I decided I would spice it up a little and eat. I ended up trashing the mushroom, in retrospect I should have cut it up and sauteed it with my veggies. Instead I just completely remade my burger with red peppers, onions and avocado. It was so good. I had to replace the top of the bun with a slice of wheat bread, but it was fine.
Lesson learned! Burgers are best at an American restaurant. I know they serve Portabello mushroom burgers in the US, but there was just something weird about the burgers at "Freshness Burger".

I love the Ice Cream face!

This kid loves chocolate ice cream and she wears it well! Lola Mei is just too cute with her chocolate mustache and goatee! If she gets ice cream this is the face we get in return!

Snoopy World

Well, its not Disney Land, but it is free and at a great mall so it is fun for the whole fam! Snoopy's World has been a hit with the girls. Its nothing much but a playground with a super tall tunnel slide and this little boat ride that goes about 1 mph around a circle of Charlie Brown and his buddies doing all sorts of things like roasting marsh mellows, visiting the moon as astronauts, celebrating Halloween of all things, and flying airplanes. Really, it isn't anything special, but on your way out you can get a balloon in whatever shape you desire and have your picture made with any of the huge statues of the gang. After 30 minutes at Snoopy World Momma finally got to do some shopping - kind of (between feedings) and everyone enjoyed a Ben & Jerry's ice cream! Not a bad day.



There is also a gutted school bus - yes, a huge yellow school bus! The kids loved it. This pic is from the first trip they had to Snoopy World: )

How to have a date with 3 kids tagging along...

Step #1: Manage to get both of the hooligans to sleep at the same time close to meal time!

Step #2: Lull the infant to sleep in the carrier and leave him there!
Step #3: Be available to be together! And be willing to be spontaneous!

Step #4: Enjoy being together! I sure love being with this handsome guy! Enjoy the peace & quiet and the ability to talk without interruption!

Impossible as it may sound, Matt and I had a date this evening with all 3 of our kids! It was impromptu - which is probably the most essential element of such a date. When Matt left the flat he was on his way to the playground with two very ornery kiddos who didn't get a block away before they were both fast asleep in the stroller. He called me a few minutes later because he had a flat tire (on the stroller) and wanted me to come meet him with the pump. So I got dressed, packed Peter up and headed out the door. After getting the stroller running again we decided I'd join Matt at Starbucks since the kids were snoozing. We walked the 20 minutes jaunt and after gazing at the stairs leading up to our favored destination Matt got a little twinkle in his eye and suggested we go for dinner at California Pizza Kitchen, which was in the same building. So we made our way to the elevator at the secret entrance and headed up to CPK for our first dinner date since Peter arrived. CPK is actually affordable when you are only feeding 2. The kids slept the whole time and we had a great dinner and great conversation. I sure love my sweet husband!